Guest appearance on The Upward Spiral with Michelle O’Brien podcast

Sharing my journey of queerness, parenting, and what it truly means to live authentically in Singapore.

In this episode of The Upward Spiral, I joined Michelle O’Brien for a vulnerable, no-filter conversation on what it really means to live authentically especially in a culture where queerness and softness can still feel unsafe.

We spoke about growing up queer in Singapore, unlearning shame, the emotional cost of hiding, and how becoming a parent reshaped my understanding of acceptance, identity, and legacy.

I also shared how Human Algorithm was born from my desire to tell stories that don’t fit neatly into societal boxes and why authenticity is political.

We unpacked:

• Why self-expression in conservative cultures feels radical

• The tension between visibility and safety

• How to raise children with freedom instead of fear

• The role of community in becoming who you really are

This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt the need to shrink themselves and is now ready to expand.